Monday, June 20, 2016

Nostalgia comes knocking

As I make a rather elaborate dosa potato curry and chutney breakfast on Saturday my mind flies back to when weekends used to be weekends.  When you could do nothing but laze around if you wanted to.
Back in Delhi when Saturdays were off every alternate week, and my house was managed by my parents, it was only the doorbell and the kids that would wake us up and I could have a lazy cup of tea over crosswords and cartoons in the Sunday paper looking forward to a breakfast of alu parathas or puris or taking off to Haldirams for a brunch of halwa puri.  There was no mad rush for grocery shopping or laundry to be done or a dog to walk or a garden to be tended to. It all got done and though we cribbed to have every Saturday off it was enough.
The laziest weekends used to be even earlier when we got just the Sunday off in Kota. I was woken up with either the maid or the milkman whoever made it first. And while I sipped my morning cup of tea, the lovely Bimla applied henna to my hair. Usually Sarita used to be making bread rolls for breakfast which was a break from my toast with marmalade and boiled egg breakfast every day. Even though the marmalade was homemade – yes made by yours truly with the Nagpur oranges every winter- life seemed to be spread over an expanse of leisure.
Despite the laid back lifestyle I practiced productivity techniques during the weekday where my alarm clock was the milkman and I boiled my egg in my tea water, while toasting my bread in a pan on a little electric stove. The gas burner and the refrigerator came much later. The fridge when Poonam started coming over for lunch. The gas burner I don’t remember when …
Coming back to the lazy Sunday – we watched Mahabharat while devouring the bread rolls with a hennaed head before going on to the next activity which was dusting the few articles of my minimalist existence. When I had my little tape recorder this was done in accompaniment to Simon n Garfunkel’s …like a bridge.. and other numbers from a cassette Shefali had left before she moved to Delhi. Or ‘ o mere sapno ke saudagar… Since I usually whirled and twirled to the music with my duster the dusting took a little longer than warranted.
Lunch was planned while we had breakfast and I contributed my staple diet of rice and sambar ( I just boiled everything together and added the sambar powder ground in the mixie ( that’s what we called the processor back then) that I had rescued from being thrown away in Bellary and brought back with me to Kota. Sometimes I contributed pyaazwale bhindi or karela.  Sarita labored a little more with the rotis and veggies. She turned out some lovely malai koftas on occasion.
Bimla turned up by the time I finished my few chores and gave me my weekly massage filling me in on the events in her life.  A luxurious bath later from a bucket of water heated by an electric rod we congregated for lunch and the afternoon movie at Sarita’s. This was before we walked to SP uncle’s to catch the evening flick on DD.
My laundry and the dishes and the cleaning of the house was taken care of by Bimla somewhere in the course of the morning and the dhobi took the clothes away to be crisply ironed and starched.
By the time evening came, we would perhaps venture out to buy some fruits and vegetables and by this time were already wondering what to do with the rest of the evening. And this was when just had the one day off.

And here I am still checking off the things that did not get done this weekend and has to go over to the next.

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